The best lesson:-

                    I was so shy, I was introvert since, my childhood. I didn't even know how to express myself infront of people. I didn't know how to start conversation. I was always busy with myself. If, someone talked to me nicely for any reason or for their profits and benefits, I forgot their past deeds and helped them. I didn't know to say No. I didn't know what is my self worth. People took advantages of such kind of people and walk away when such people needs help. Not only me, many of such people exist in this world. Who are so kind and compassionate and giver. Who only knows to give.

                     But life is your biggest teacher. Life teaches you by hook or by crook. Life pushes you always to be the right and balanced being. Life pushes you untill you take the right lesson. It's also happened to me. When I needed people walked away. This cycle continues it's circle. Then, I sat aside and thought where I was going wrong? What I did wrong? Which wrong road I took for my life's journey.

                     My father always says to analyse yourself correctly. Always speaks truth to youself and to God, because these two are those who knows you deep down to your core. Then, I started analysis myself. I got right answers. And I started to realise my worth. I start to invest in people, who invest in me. Someone had said that your health is your real wealth. If you doesn't care of yourself then nobody cares about you. If you won't value yourself then nobody valued you. If you won't respect yourself, nobody reapects you. If you won't love yourself, nobody loves you.

                       We always makes complaint to our bad days. But truth is that our bad days tells about people who are your true well wishers and who are not. So, we have to give respect to our bad days, because at that time we only meet our genuine person. I know it's hard to accept our mistakes, our goodness. But as soon as possible we accept ourselves, we start to being true, loyal and honest to ourselves. We meet our genuine self and we definitely start towards success and towards right choices.

                        I had learnt my best lesson from my bad days, from my failures to do what you love to do, only keeps in your mind that your deeds shouldn't harm you and anyone. I had learnt to say 'No'. I had learnt to love, care, value myself, to respect my choices, to express myself, to respond myself and one most important thing I had learnt from my bad days is that always giving and serving others is not the right choice.

~Swati Sharma (Bhumika)